Noémie Gmür
Sex and Relationship Counsellor Hypnotherapist
Queer & LGBTQIA+ · Intersectional Feminism · Neurodiversity · Polyamory & Ethical Non Monogamy · Sex Positive · Kink / BDSM Aware · Sex Workers Affirmative · Trauma informed
Only online yet and soon in Brussels
My name is Noémie Gmür (pronouns she/they). I am a certified Relationship and Sex counsellor who provides therapy, hypnotherapy and workshops for individuals, couples and multiple partnered relationships.
I offer therapy in English and French online. Being queer, neurodivergent, and polyamorous myself, I'm constantly working on these issues to offer non-judgmental support. My approach is also based on the fact that each individual and each story is unique, implying I will always adjust my approach to suit your needs.
What is Sex & Couple Therapy?
Sex & Couple Therapy focuses on sexuality, intimacy, identity, gender and the communication between partners. This talking therapy helps people sort out their thoughts and feelings around gender identity, sexual expression, romantic & erotic relationships, sexual and/or romantic attractions, kinks. It can occur individually or with your partner(s). This form of therapy does not include physical touch.
My therapeutical approach
I particularly work with people who identify as queer/LGBTQIA+, kinky/BDSM, sex-positive, neurodivergent, non-monogamous, polyamorous, BIPOC, trauma survivors, sex workers or people who aspire to explore these topics. If you don't recognize yourself in any of these terms, just know that I'm open-minded about them. Labels don't work for everyone, and that's totally okay. I also include an intersectional feminist approach and am continuously training and educating myself on these topics.
Through a conversational and mindfulness-based approach, I aim to help you identify repetitive and restrictive patterns that are altering your relationship with yourself and/or your partner(s). I work on the basis that you are your own expert. My job is to accompany you to reconnect with your needs and desires. It is very important for me that you leave the counseling session not only with more information and knowledge, but also with more power and self-confidence.
I am bound by professional secrecy; everything that is said and shared in our sessions remains strictly confidential.
WHAT HAPPENS DURING
A SEX THERAPY OR COUPLE SESSION?
I suggest that we first talk during a discovery call or video call (20-30min). It's free of charge. We'll chat a bit and see if and how I can help you. If we are in phase, we will then continue the follow-up and set an appointment together, on a video call, a call or in-person. A session lasts from 50min to 90min, depending on your needs and if you're on your own or with a partner. It's a space for you, in which you can talk about everything with no judgement. If there is anything you'd like to know about me to feel more comfortable, please feel free to ask.
There is no physical touch during a sex therapy session.
24.08.2024 : Neurospicy in relationships
"Neurospicy" is a playful and informal term used to describe individuals whose brains function in ways that differ from what is considered typical or "neurotypical." This term often encompasses a range of neurodivergent conditions, including autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and other cognitive variations. You can call yourself "neurospicy" without an official diagnosis, self-diagnosis are also valid! ➡️ In this workshop, we'll dive into the complexities and joys of relationships involving neurospicy individuals. Whether you’re navigating these dynamics yourself or supporting a partner, this session will provide insights, tools, and a welcoming environment to help you build stronger, more connected relationships 🫂🤍